Whenever I tell people that I am an extrovert, the response I always get is so positive. “Wow it must be so easy for you to connect with people,” and “you probably have so much fun in social settings.” Although these statements have some truth to it, no one expresses the struggles that come with being an extrovert... The constant needing to fit in, the utter fear of being alone, of not being loved, not being valued. I’m sure everyone, not just extroverts, go through these struggles, but for me, as someone who thrive’s from validation from my friends, family and coworkers, being true to myself is so difficult. I find myself constantly trying to impress, constantly trying to be exciting, cool, fun, smart, wholesome...all so I can feel love and validation from others. I’m going through some really big and exciting life changes right now, I’m going to be moving to NYC in a couple of weeks, I am starting a new job, and a lot of these life events are going to c...